How to Give Advice

With all the different political and business agendas fighting to get heard, it is often difficult to lose sight of what the truth is. This is true of China with the rest of the world, and also very true of the business world. When this happens, it’s very difficult to step back from the respective agendas, take a deep breath and a fresh look without becoming angry or cynical.

Giving advice and insights are a sometimes difficult skill to learn, but they are very important. I firmly believe that the world would be a better place if people knew how to give advice better. For many people, it’s very difficult to learn this important and under-utilized skill.

Giving advice is especially difficult within large organizations, where the truth may be readily apparent but where the management or leadership does not want to listen. Communications is a two-way street; someone has to speak and someone has to listen.

So what can you do to insure your chances of success and being listened to?

  • Pick the right time. Speak only when that person is ready to listen. Often, that means when that person’s idea has failed, sometimes miserably.
  • Don’t gloat over the mistake they just made, or say something like “I told you so!” That is a sure way to make sure that your message doesn’t get heard; you will not last in the organization, even though your message may be right.
  • Don’t personalize the mistake they made, even though it may have resulted in millions in losses or damage. This doesn’t help either.
  • Offer your suggestion in the form of a solution which you have given deep thought to. However, don’t go into detail to explain it unless you are asked to.
  • Keep it short. Get to the point, say it in as few words as possible, and unless you are asked to stay, walk away. Senior and executive management have little time to think about things on their own, so leave them alone so that they can think. If your suggestion is a good one, then it will stand up to scrutiny.
  • Choose a time when they are alone with you. Never bring up the advice in front of other people; if you do you run the risk of making them appear silly in front of a large group of people, which is never a good thing.
  • Don’t bring up advice in meetings; most meetings are not a good place for discussion. Too many groups have competing agendas.
  • Learn to write well. One of the most under-utilized tools in an office is the memo. Discuss the situation, lay out your case, and send it to the right people for review and discussion. The goal of a good memo is to start an intelligent discussion; keep that in mind.
  • Don’t give advice anonymously. If you believe in your advice and that it has value, stand by it and let everyone know it is yours, and that you are willing to go up or down with it.
  • Keep emotion out of it and keep the tone neutral. Use logic to make your point.
  • Keep it open-ended so that the listener can offer his/her point of view if they want to. If they do, you may have a conversation, which is a good thing.
  • Always be diplomatic.

What other ideas do you have about giving advice?

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Business and Social Context Isn’t Important; It’s Everything

One of the most popular cliches in the west about China is that Chinese are generally good and reasonable people, but when it comes to nationalism, they are unreasonable. On the political level, national sovereignty is not negotiable, and when it comes to business, you need to realize that nationalism is a wildcard, and can throw a monkey-wrench into your best-laid plans. Put into this context, the 2008 Beijing Olympics is all about righting past wrongs, and showing that China is now an equal, maybe even a leader, in the world stage.

Like all bad cliches, this cliche contains a kernel of truth.

In my previous article, I mentioned why it’s so important for any business to be successful in China, decisions must be made locally by local management; it cannot be micromanaged from the US or anywhere else. Established business sectors such as finance, banking, retail, and fast moving consumer goods (FMCG), all understand this very basic rule of international business.

In the venture capital field in China, there has been a large influx of companies and partnerships which have opened offices and partnerships in Beijing and Shanghai. These companies understand that good investment decisions must, for the most part, be made in China where the local partners can understand the business environment, the competition and perform the due diligence to make the right decisions. Smart decisions cannot be made outside China.

And even that is not necessarily enough. Now more companies are going into the Chinese tier 2 and 3 cities and they are realizing that Beijing and Shanghai have more in common with New York, London or Tokyo than with other Chinese cities.

So why do so many US technology companies continue to try to second-guess and micromanage their China local management?

This is a mystery to me, and I continue to be befuddled by it. How can intelligent people continue to make and repeat over and over again mistakes which others have made before?

And then, when the Chinese local management complains that they are not empowered, sometimes they dismiss it as the Chinese “going nationalistic”. Never mind that the people questioning the Chinese management in the US do not speak, read or write Chinese; never mind that the people coming into China spend only a few days on the ground in China and think that they have China “all figured out”, yet they continue to do this over and over again.

Does this make sense? Any sense at all? And should there be any surprise that leading US companies including Yahoo!, eBay and AOL have failed in China?

And yet, these people control the budget and resource allocation for China. Should there be any surprise at all that US Internet companies have not been able to be successful in China?

What value do these people contribute to the success of the business in China? I can’t see any. Then when the company fails, it isn’t because headquarters slowed down the decision loop; it’s because of “poor performance by local management”!

They have set up Chinese local management to be the fall guy even before they started!

If this thinking were only confined to Internet companies and startups in China, it would be bad, but in the overall economic picture, it wouldn’t be that important.

The problem for the west is that it isn’t.

It has affected the west’s popularity in Africa because China offers aid without strings attached. In the mainstream media in the west, this is depicted as a cynical attempt by the Chinese to curry favor with regimes which behave badly.

But could there be more to it than meets the eye?

Could it be that the Africans don’t like to have someone dictate loan and development terms from Washington DC, London or Paris, and setting performance benchmarks for them without understanding the context of development in their own countries and region?

And could it be that the real reason for the popularity of the Chinese is that for better or for worse, they have gone local, setting up their own businesses and factories in Africa instead of trying to dictate terms from Beijing?

Definitely this is something worth pondering…

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